“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
James 1:2-4

In this season of my life, as I desire to stay on fire for God. It’s got me thinking about how every little thing—whether it’s a small victory, a tough challenge, a casual conversation, or a major letdown—all plays a part in shaping the character that God is molding within me.
When things go well, I’ve learned to express my gratitude to the Lord, both privately and publicly. Understanding that a heart full of thanks is what God desires from me during the good times is a lesson I’ve embraced. However, being grateful in tough moments has proven to be the real challenge. To be honest, it’s an ongoing process.
It’s easy peezy to be thankful when life is smooth sailing, but expressing gratitude in the midst of challenges requires me to actively combat doubt, anger, and unbelief. It’s a journey of continuous growth.
I’ve come to grasp that even in the toughest moments of life I must give thanks to The Lord. Ultimately, whether I believe or not, whether I understand it or not, and whether I like it or not, He is working the difficult situation out for my good.
Furthermore, challenging times shape character like no other. They instill qualities such as perseverance and hope, which in turn fortify my faith. Just like muscles in the body that grow through weight & resistance training, so does faith. Faith is a muscle that is developed and built stronger by handing the resistance and weight of life. Building faith is a process that involves intentional effort and staying close and connected to God, even when it gets tough.
Like every other person, I make mistakes, but I know God’s grace is sufficient. I see my slip-ups as part of the character-building journey He’s guiding me through. When I mess up, I repent and give myself grace, just as Jesus would give me. This allows me to also give that same grace to others when they mess up. The one who has been forgiven much, loves much (Luke 4:47).
Beyond the ups and downs of life, God is also shaping my character through my actions. Take, for instance, when I do something good, even if it’s done in haste, God acknowledges and appreciates the good. However, He gently nudges me to ‘slow down’ or ‘engage more.’
I know understand that He’s encouraging me to slow down, to make sure I don’t miss out on the richness of the experiences He has in store for me, even in the seemingly small moments or interactions. It’s a valuable lesson in savoring every bit of the journey.
Moreover, I appreciate how God is patient and gentle with me as I grow into the woman He has called me to be. Let’s be real, there are times when I give in to my flesh and do the wrong thing. But when that regret and guilt set in and I’m ready to be condemn myself, God always reminds me: “There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Rom. 8:1). I’m always sooo grateful for that reassuring truth.
I know it’s not God excusing or condoning my sin whatsoever; but rather Him showing me grace and mercy because He loves me and wants better for me in those moments. Our incredible God knows that shame and condemnation don’t inspire positive change—only love does. Love endures all! I can honestly say that the love of God is shaping my character in ways I never imagined. I’m beyond thankful for His love and amazing grace.
Love, Chantele




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